Some stories are carried in a father’s eyes before they are ever spoken.

That is what I felt when I met Andriy and his son, Kirill, at Father’s House in Kyiv.

There was something deeply humble about Andriy. He was not trying to explain away the pain or make his story sound larger than life. He simply carried himself like a man who had been through more than anyone should have to endure, and yet still understood that his son needed him to keep going.

In 2020, Andriy lost his wife to cancer.

In one heartbreaking season, he became both grieving husband and single father. His young son, Kirill, still needed meals, comfort, protection, and love. Andriy still had to get up each day and be present, even while his own heart was carrying the silence of deep loss.

But Andriy’s life had been marked by hardship long before that.

He grew up in the eastern regions of Ukraine, where life had not always been stable or kind. Over time, those early struggles left marks on his confidence and sense of worth. Though he loved his family deeply, he often wrestled with the feeling that he had little to offer.

Then war came.

When the full-scale invasion began, Andriy and Kirill’s world became smaller and smaller. For more than a year, they lived almost entirely inside their apartment. Outside was dangerous. Inside, the isolation became its own kind of burden.

Kirill lost contact with other children.

Andriy lost the rhythm of normal life.

They were surviving, but survival is not the same as living.

I think that is what moved me most as I listened to their story and photographed them together. This was not only a story of war. It was a story of a father trying to hold onto hope while grief, fear, and loneliness pressed in from every side.

And yet, God was not finished writing their story.

A small group of volunteers eventually found Andriy and Kirill and connected them with a church in Kramatorsk. The pastor there knew Father’s House and reached out with a simple request.

There was a father and son who needed help.

Could Father’s House receive them?

For the ministry, this was something different. Many of the families coming through the Restored Life program were mothers with children, displaced by war and trying to rebuild. But when Andriy and Kirill arrived, it became clear that their need was just as real.

They needed safety.

They needed community.

They needed room to heal.

And they needed people who would believe in them before they could fully believe in themselves again.

At Father’s House, that healing has begun in small and beautiful ways.

Andriy is changing too.

He is rediscovering his own strength. He is beginning to see his value again. He is surrounded by people who remind him that his life matters, his fatherhood matters, and his story is not defined only by grief, fear, or what has been lost.

Photographing Andriy and Kirill was a wonderful experience for me because there was such tenderness between them. Nothing felt forced. Nothing felt staged. It was simply a father and son, side by side, still carrying the weight of what they had been through, but beginning to breathe again.

That is the beauty of Father’s House.

It is not only a place where people are given shelter.

It is a place where people are seen.

And when people are truly seen, something sacred begins to happen. Dignity returns. Courage rises. Hope begins to take root again.

Andriy and Kirill’s journey is not finished.

Healing takes time.

But today, they are safe. They are no longer alone. And in the faithful care of Father’s House, a father and son are beginning to imagine a future again.

About Father’s House — Kyiv, Ukraine
Father’s House is a Christian ministry in Kyiv that has been serving vulnerable children and families since the 1990s. Founded by Roman Korniyko, the ministry began as a refuge for children rescued from the streets and abusive environments, providing rehabilitation, counseling, and a path into loving families.

Today, under the leadership of the next generation, Father’s House continues its mission through programs like Restored Life, serving families displaced and devastated by the war in Ukraine. By offering a holistic approach, spiritual, emotional, and physical care, they walk alongside families as they heal, rebuild, and move toward independent life.

At its core, Father’s House exists to live out a simple calling: to love God and love people, restoring lives one family at a time.

To learn more about Father’s House and their work, visit: http://www.o-dim.com/en/

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